Currently, there's no way of knowing if threading is enabled for a folder unless you scroll down to a message thread and see the thread icon. The thread icon in the column headers should change color or background to indicate when it's turned on.
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I suggest setting 'thread off' by default when a new account or directory is created.
Also having an auto changing buttom to put thread off/on inmediatelly for any folder