Thunderbird's handling of the day of the week is basically nonexistent. There is no way to have the date column display the day of the week along with the date, or have it as a separate column. The only format preset that will show day-of-week substitutes it for the actual date, which is worse than useless. And not just the column, you can't get Thunderbird to show day-of-week ANYWHERE. This info should be front and center at all times by default.
I spent a while poking at this, because I just couldn't believe this issue even exists after over 20 years of development. This should be made the #1 issue for the next update.